If you've been hiding anything from your spouse for five years (especially millions of dollars) you have not been wise. You’ve been deceptive. And that’s not going to end well. I’ve been married for over 40 years, and I can tell you that no amount of money is worth destroying trust in your marriage. | Dave Ramsey

If you want a marriage that lasts, agree on these four things before you walk down the aisle: 1. How you’ll handle money: budgeting, debt, saving, investing, etc. 2. Your faith and how you’ll live it out together. 3. Kids: if you’ll have them, how many, and how you’ll raise them. 4. How you’ll deal with extended family. Get on the same page now, and you’ll save yourselves years of heartache later. | Dave Ramsey